Studies show that married people live longer and make more money than a single who ends up getting taxed more by the government....
And that singles' health may be affected by singleness....
But what if you are single and can not find anyone to marry you?
Then what....?Is it true that singles have a harder time than married people?
I don't think it's that simple. I believe there are those who are happy within a marriage........and those that are happy being single. There are good and bad days on both sides of the fence. It's up to the individual and what creates their inner happiness. 鈾モ櫏Is it true that singles have a harder time than married people?
Well...as you grow older you benefit by having someone as a companion, and to build a family with. I don't think the tax thing holds....they are going back right now to married couples get taxed higher than singles....it depends on the law that is being followed.
And I don't buy the ';I can't find anyone';...you just aren't mixing with people enough. There are just so many other singles looking for someone too.
Get involved...join groups that share your interests, hobbies, etc...Sailing, swimming, sports, music, volunteer work...there are many, many out there...and get to know people....just find friends...the rest will happen!
If you are a guy, I can't tell you how many very nice girls are out there wishing a guy would notice them. If you are a girl...be friendly...be helpful and caring....many guys are scared of girls, believe it or not.
You have to make them feel comfortable and non-threatened!
not to my knowledge. when i was single i loved it i didnt take notice of how much i was taxed as i was too busy mingling with mates from work and having fun at nightclubs and things. why concentrate on the negatives and why not concentrate on the positive issues. single people will always meet other single people if they get out and get there own lives. like taking apicnic by themselves and enjoying the views.and then enjoying life and starting a gym class and meeting people.take care
I've learned that it can be difficult to be single. It also depends on how you feel about it. If you're great being by yourself and you don't mind it, then it's not hard at all. Others I think who NEED someone in their lives find things a lot more difficult.
Guess you pay more taxes and die sooner.
Ok, seriously...are you worried about this? Don't believe all the statistics you read or hear. And if you're single, just hang in there. Someone will find you one day.
then you have it harder than married people.
no no no
i was with him for 15 yrs-we got married 2 yrs ago-im done as of last week.
the grass is not greener
Keep looking.
switch hit dude.
Then what.......?? Then I guess that lonely person is one dead S.O.B.
There are pros's and con's on each front. I think the thing I find most interesting is that when you are single, many focus on finding just that one special person, instead of focusing on everyone and just let it be.
When you are young, you can be a bit more liberal with dating, but as you get older, especially in the upper 20's, early 30's, the dating crowd really changes, and the fun factor is more serious, with focus on careers and what are you really going to do, when talking on dates.
When you are single, you have the ability to have variety of people to run around with, maybe even have in the bedroom which is an ego boost to most guys, unless they are supporting it with lies.
When you are married, you generally get free access to sex when it's available, but it's not that accessible because there will always be those darn headaches and PMS times, if not sick or in bed (sleeping). Sometimes a married man can go longer than some single men waiting for sex.
As for the finances and such, you have to look at it at different angles. Most married couples are dual earners, so you can buy more, and often do with a mortgage, cars and then kids at some point (even for the ones who claim they will be child-free). This puts down the roots that credit companies like, not to mention when it comes time for the big loans, which when you get tied up with money, financial advisers, bankers, and your own goals, you find that you are taking out deductions and credits on the long form, while the single person is merely existing in their loft, maybe having to suffer a hangover at worse.
When you get married, kids do come at some point, so you as a parent generally become more healthy (after a year or so of the last baby birth-date) because you want to see them though the years, so you are making a lot of strong life decisions that keep your real, not staying up late playing with the gamers and fire. So your risk factors are so much better just staying home eating healthy meals than slurping down another cold one at the pub while eying the singles.
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